On September 16, 2026, The Gatehouse and the Survivor Council of Canada welcomed 66 participants to a hybrid Indigenous Town Hall on Childhood Sexual Abuse. Hosted at the Native Canadian Centre of Toronto and online, the gathering created space for Indigenous voices, lived experience, community knowledge, and practical recommendations for healing, prevention, and systems change. The Town Hall brought together survivors, Indigenous community members, allies, service providers, students, staff, and community supporters. Forty-five people participated in person and 21 joined online, making it possible for voices from different locations and experiences to contribute to the conversation. Listening to Indigenous lived experience and community knowledge Featured speakers Kristi White, Leo Nicholas, Melissa DeLeary, and Rosalia Rivera, shared knowledge and perspectives that helped ground the day’s conversations. Stewart Thompson served as MC, while The Gatehouse Executive Director, Maria Barcelos welcomed participants to share in this safe and inclusive space. Rosalia Rivera also presented the 2026 Out of the Shadows Index, connecting the community discussion to a broader policy framework for preventing and responding to sexual violence against children and adolescents. The Index presentation examined governance and accountability, prevention, healing, and justice. Canada’s lowest score among these four areas was in healing, reinforcing the urgency of expanding medical care and integrated survivor services in rural, northern, and Indigenous communities, as well as improving access to legal support. Community sharing… Through facilitated discussions, participants identified barriers that Indigenous survivors continue to encounter within healthcare, policing, counselling, victim services, legal systems, and other institutions. Distrust grows when people are dismissed, disbelieved, misunderstood, or asked to navigate services that do not reflect Indigenous histories, cultures, and lived realities. Participants also spoke about the importance of restoring and sustaining Indigenous cultural practices that colonization attempted to disrupt. Examples of culturally grounded healing included cedar footbaths, sweetgrass brushing, connection with nature, and nurturing practices rooted in culture and community. The discussions emphasized that Elders, traditional healers, Indigenous practitioners, and Indigenous women’s services need stable financial, emotional, and practical support. Healing spaces must also be strength-based. Survivors need opportunities to speak not only about harm, but also about resilience, identity, cultural connection, leadership, and hope. Prevention, safety, and inclusion Participants called for prevention education in schools and community settings, with meaningful involvement from Elders, aunties, uncles, and community knowledge holders. Education must also acknowledge the continuing effects of colonization and the Sixties Scoop. Two-Spirit inclusion emerged as an essential priority. Data, language, counselling, facilitation, and community spaces must reflect Two-Spirit experiences. Participants also discussed culturally safe support systems, community response protocols, survivor circles, and anonymous ways for survivors to seek help and information when reaching out openly does not feel safe. Building sustainable community responses, helping Indigenous survivors of childhood sexual abuse. Some discussions focused on the gap between how community programs need to operate and how funders expect them to be structured and measured. Participants noted that funding models often emphasize numerical outputs while overlooking the lived realities behind the numbers, particularly in remote and geographically isolated communities. The group explored collaboration and community-led sustainability, including shared training, resource partnerships, social enterprise, community food gardens, and initiatives that reinvest revenue locally. These ideas centered community ownership, local capacity, and responses shaped by actual community needs. Turning survivor knowledge into action A consistent message ran throughout the Town Hall: Indigenous survivors and communities must have meaningful representation in the programs, policies, funding decisions, and systems that affect them. Lived experience is not simply testimony. It is knowledge that can guide prevention, healing, education, professional practice, advocacy, and policy. These insights will help inform The Gatehouse Survivor Knowledge Network, an emerging initiative designed to ethically connect survivor knowledge with research, frontline practice, education, and systems change. As the Network develops, Indigenous survivor knowledge must be stewarded with respect for culture, consent, community, survivor-centred governance, and data protection. Continuing the work together The Town Hall showed what becomes possible when people are invited into an environment grounded in cultural safety, respect, inclusion, and survivor leadership. The recommendations gathered through the event will support future advocacy, education, partnerships, funding proposals, community engagement, and survivor-informed resources. The Gatehouse and the Survivor Council of Canada extend sincere thanks to speakers Kristi White, Leo Nicholas, and Melissa DeLeary; presenter Rosalia Rivera; MC Stewart Thompson; facilitator Erin Alexandra; staff members Maria Barcelos and Jasmine Lem; student volunteers Naeema, Joshua, and Caitlyn; and every survivor, participant, volunteer, partner, and community supporter who contributed to this gathering. We are also grateful to the Brave Movement and Together for Girls for supporting this important event. Learn more and connect with The Gatehouse: www.thegatehouse.org Learn more about Survivor Council Canada https://survivorscouncil.ca/ Learn more about the Out of the Shadows Index https://www.bravemovement.org/campaigns/out-of-the-shadows Connect with Kristi White https://www.jayandgizmo.ca/ Connect with Rosalia Rivera https://www.consentparenting.com/ The Gatehouse • Survivor centered support education and advocacy. Watch the Town Hall Video on our YouTube channel! Thank you to our event sponsor A Silent Cry—Creates Our Collective Voice As I listened to the opening and closing song from Melissa, the insightful, deeply moving words from Rosalia, Kristi, Zada, Maria, Leo, Stewart, and observed the artwork of Randy “Waywaymegwun” Charboneau, I found myself reflecting on thoughts about the world around us and I looked to the poem: A Silent Cry written by Kristi White wherein her voice relentlessly states: “The system’s gaze, averted eyes, Society’s silence, complicit lies. Their stories hushed, their voices dim, Lost in the shadows, growing grim.” And, here we are today, following decades upon decades, we have world-wide climate crisis impacting every facet of our life. Indigenous peoples still living under “drinking water advisories.” What is it that has people on this planet treating children, youth, adults as something other than sacred? What is it that has people commodifying the lives of children, abusing them, and abusing intimate partners in ways that sparks not only outrage but also and perhaps even more insidious as Kristi states-“Society’s Silence?” Given the world wide-epidemic of sexual harm, and intimate partner violence in all of their forms,
Man Enough to Heal by Ruth Swan
As a community member who is learning about the healing journey for those who have suffered childhood sexual abuse, I was initially reluctant to attend such an event and perhaps fearful of the unknown. Would I feel safe and could I manage listening to the journey of these three men. From the beginning and throughout the event I felt safe and secure. The event began with a grounding activity presented by the Executive Director of the Gatehouse – Maria Barcelos. Professional staff were present. I relaxed. The panel discussion was facilitated by Stuart and Mike. I leaned in to each speaker with curiosity, empathy and admiration. I have never before witnessed men describe personal feelings in their life journey in such a transparent and honest forum. Their articulation was powerful and empowering. I have attended several Gatehouse events over the past 18 months. This event helped me as a learner understand the profound impact of childhood sexual abuse, societal implications and the ground-breaking work of the Gatehouse in helping victims of childhood sexual abuse redeem life. With sincere appreciation and deep gratitude to the three brave men for sharing their unique journey and caring enough about themselves and community to share their story.
Man Enough to Heal Wednesday, March 11
Courage, Connection and Healing On Wednesday, March 11, from 7–9 PM, The Gatehouse will host Man Enough to Heal, a panel discussion at Humber College Lakeshore Campus. This event brings together male-identifying survivors of childhood sexual abuse to share lived experience, insight, and perspective on healing and recovery. Survivors of all gender identities, as well as allies and supporters, are welcome to attend. Man Enough to Heal creates a structured, supportive space where men’s voices are centred, stigma is challenged, and difficult conversations can happen safely and respectfully. About the Panel The Man Enough to Heal panel features men speaking honestly about the long-term impact of childhood sexual abuse, the challenges of healing, and what recovery has looked like across different stages of life. The discussion is co-moderated by Stewart Thompson and Mike Allan, both peer facilitators with The Gatehouse, and is guided by shared agreements that prioritize safety, choice, and respect. This is not group therapy, and no audience participation is required. Attendees are welcome to listen, reflect, and engage at their own pace. Why This Conversation Matters Childhood sexual abuse remains deeply stigmatized, particularly when survivors are men. Many male survivors grow up without language for their experiences, or without permission to express how trauma has shaped their lives. Man Enough to Heal exists to challenge that silence. The panel aims to: By hearing men speak openly and honestly, participants gain a deeper understanding of how trauma affects men across the lifespan. Intended Outcomes While each attendee’s experience will be unique, the event is designed to support the following outcomes: Who Should Attend Man Enough to Heal is open to: You do not need prior experience with The Gatehouse to attend. All are welcome. Event Details Date: Wednesday, March 11, 2026Time: 7:00 PM to 9:00 PMCheck in at 6:30PMLocation: Humber College, Lakeshore Campus, Building and Room to be confirmed via separate email to all registrants Cost: $20 per person. All proceeds support The Gatehouse. Get your ticket(s) today!👉 Purchase your ticket here: https://www.zeffy.com/en-CA/ticketing/man-enough-to-heal-event-march-11–2026 Space is limited! Tickets are limited to 65 max.
Man Enough to Heal: Men Share Their Healing Journeys and Hope
Journeys of Healing and Hope When we think about childhood sexual abuse (CSA), we often fall into a rigid binary of who causes harm and who is harmed. This limited view deepens the pain that men, trans, and non-binary individuals have already experienced. The truth is: men can be survivors too. “According to the 2014 GSS [General Social Survey], in that year, the majority (83%) of sexual assaults were not reported to police. Only five percent of sexual assaults were reported. In three studies completed by Justice Canada with survivors of sexual assault, over two-thirds of those in the male sample (68%) (2019, Government of Canada)” Join us for a powerful all-male panel discussion on male survivors of childhood sexual abuse (CSA). This event will shed light on the experiences of male survivors and challenge the myths that surround them. Held at Creeds Coffee in Toronto, the evening will offer space for storytelling, connection, and community. Get Your Tickets Date: Wednesday, March 11, 2026Time: 7:00 PM to 9:00 PMCheck in at 6:30PMLocation: Humber College, Lakeshore Campus, Building and Room to be confirmed via separate email to all registrants Cost: $20 per person. All proceeds support The Gatehouse. Get your ticket(s) today! Space is limited! Tickets are limited to 65 max. Get tickets here To uplift and support male survivors purchase your tickets at: https://www.zeffy.com/en-CA/ticketing/man-enough-to-heal-event-march-11–2026 Are you a male CSA survivor? A student, educator, or professional in the healing field? A community member passionate about supporting survivors? You are warmly invited to attend. Man Enough to Heal is not a lecture. It’s an evening of truth-telling, solidarity, and hope. A night to break the silence and remind survivors everywhere: you are not alone. Other Male Survivor Supports If you or anyone you know might be looking for support, please reach out to The Gatehouse for judgment-free, caring, client-centered support with our phase 1 and 2 peer support programs which you can learn more about here: https://thegatehouse.org/programs-and-services/peer-support/phase-1 You can also call the male survivors of abuse crisis line, which is 24/7 and multilingual: 1-866-887-0015.
Restorative and Transformational Justice Practices After Sexual Harm
Why Is This Event Important? Despite the widespread impact of sexual violence, the current system is failing survivors. With fewer than 6% of survivors reporting due to fear of re-traumatization, it is crucial to explore justice models that genuinely support healing and transformation. This is why we are encouraging one and all to Join The Gatehouse and Justice4Survivors on Thursday, September 25, 2025 Registration/Check in: 8:30 am Event time is 9:00 am to 3:30 p.m. Venue is YWCA, room: Nancy’s Auditorium Address: 87 Elm St Toronto, ON M5G 0A8, This important gathering will bring together survivors, restorative and transformative justice practitioners, and legal experts to explore alternatives to the traditional justice system—ones that prioritize healing, accountability, and meaningful change. Through panel discussions, open dialogues, and collective strategizing, we aim to reshape justice to be survivor-centered and trauma-informed. Get Your Tickets Get your tickets today! We would love to hear your voice in shaping solutions that are just and healing for everyone. Special rate for post-secondary students. Use the discount code STUDENTRJ at checkout. https://www.zeffy.com/en-CA/ticketing/survivors-voices-restorative-and-transformative-justice-after-sexual-harm If you are experiencing financial barriers and want to attend, please contact Maria – [email protected] or [email protected] Event Agenda 8:30 am : Registration 9:00 am – 9:30 am : Opening & Grounding 9:30 am – 10:45 am: Panel 1: Survivors Speak: Transformative and Restorative Justice for Sexual Harm ft. Survivors 4 Justice Reform Chapter Members Emily Quint and Founder Marlee Liss and another Survivor 11:00 am – 12:15 pm: Panel 2: Policy Experts Speak: Restorative and Transformative Justice for Gender-Based Violence ft. Hoori Hamboyan (Federal Ombudsman), Arthur Lockhart (The Gatehouse), Rosel Kim (LEAF) 12: 15 pm – 1:15 pm: Lunch – provided 1:15 pm – 2:45 pm: Open Space facilitated by The Gatehouse – attendees supported in exploring topics discussed in working groups, end goal of creating a collective policy brief 2:45 pm – 3:30 pm: Closing and grounding Thank you to our Champions of Justice sponsors, Harmony Homestay & Gluckstein Lawyers Resources Handout for this event Continue To Follow The Gatehouse To keep up to date on what we’re doing and our life-changing collaborations, you can follow us on Instagram @thegatehousetoronto and @survivors4justicereform, as well as become a member of The Survivors Council of Canada by heading to https://survivorscouncil.ca For more information about The Gatehouse programs and services, visit thegatehouse.org
Man Enough to Heal: Men Share Their Healing Journeys and Hope
Journeys of Healing and Hope When we think about childhood sexual abuse (CSA), we often fall into a rigid binary of who causes harm and who is harmed. This limited view deepens the pain that men, trans, and non-binary individuals have already experienced. The truth is: men can be survivors too. “According to the 2014 GSS [General Social Survey], in that year, the majority (83%) of sexual assaults were not reported to police. Only five percent of sexual assaults were reported. In three studies completed by Justice Canada with survivors of sexual assault, over two-thirds of those in the male sample (68%) (2019, Government of Canada)” Join us for a powerful all-male panel discussion on male survivors of childhood sexual abuse (CSA). This event will shed light on the experiences of male survivors and challenge the myths that surround them. Held in an intimate café setting, the evening will offer space for storytelling, connection, and community. Get Your Tickets Register today for November 5, 2025, Man Enough to Heal: Men Share Their Journeys of Healing and Hope Location: Creeds Coffee Bar 450 Dupont Street, Toronto, ON M5R 3P3 Cost: $20 per ticket To uplift and support male survivors purchase your tickets at: https://www.zeffy.com/ticketing/man-enough-to-heal-men-share-their-journeys-of-healing-and-hope Are you a male CSA survivor? A student, educator, or professional in the healing field? A community member passionate about supporting survivors? You are warmly invited to attend. Man Enough to Heal is not a lecture. It’s an evening of truth-telling, solidarity, and hope. A night to break the silence and remind survivors everywhere: you are not alone. Other Male Survivor Supports If you or anyone you know might be looking for support, please reach out to The Gatehouse for judgment-free, caring, client-centered support with our phase 1 and 2 peer support programs which you can learn more about here: https://thegatehouse.org/programs-and-services/peer-support/phase-1 You can also call the male survivors of abuse crisis line, which is 24/7 and multilingual: 1-866-887-0015, or check out A Time for Men sexual abuse survivors group: https://bloorwestpsychotherapy.ca/a-time-for-men-groups
Truth and Reconciliation Day with The Gatehouse: Why You Should Attend
Who’s Land is This? The Gatehouse resides on the traditional land of the Mississaugas of the Credit First Nations, Huron-Wendat, Haudenosaunee, and is part of Treaty 13 territory. The Purpose of Hosting Truth and Reconciliation Day At The Gatehouse, we create space every day to confront an issue that is painful, complex, and left silently in the shadows: Childhood Sexual Abuse. On Wednesday, September 17, 2025, we extend that commitment by facing another hard truth: the legacy and ongoing impacts of Canadian colonialism. Led by Indigenous Knowledge Keepers, we will come together and honour the truths of residential schools, the loss of Indigenous languages, culture, and identity—and we recognize the continued strength and resilience of Indigenous communities.This day is about remembrance, reflection, and respect. It’s an invitation to listen, learn, and be part of the journey toward reconciliation. Why Should I Attend? If you feel anxious or unsure about whether to attend, you’re not alone, and you’re still warmly encouraged to join us from 1pm to 3pm at The Gatehouse. We strive to be a safer space where dialogue is welcomed, and making mistakes is part of learning. This event is a meaningful opportunity to deepen your understanding of Canada’s history and its lasting impacts on Indigenous communities. Held in our beautiful and revitalizing Healing Garden, the gathering supports Indigenous-led education and advocacy, strengthens community, and fosters intercultural understanding. You’ll have the honour of respectfully witnessing or participating in Indigenous ceremony: something best experienced in guided and intentional spaces like this. It’s a chance to listen, reflect, and engage with the lived experiences of Indigenous Peoples alongside others who are committed to learning and healing. Whether you’re a teacher bringing students, a family wanting to learn together, or someone looking to grow in your allyship, this event is for you. Everyone is welcome. By attending, you will be supporting both The Gatehouse and its mission to create spaces of compassion, education, and transformation, as well as guest speaker and educator, Kristi White, a proud Haudenosaunee woman, and author of Indigenous children’s books The Adventures of Jay & Gizmo. We hope you’ll be part of this meaningful day. You can register for the FREE event here: https://www.zeffy.com/en-CA/ticketing/annual-truth-and-reconciliation-in-the-healing-garden Other Resources Below you can find a wide range of resources to help supplement your knowledge about Indigenous People’s. https://principedejoyce.com/en/index https://fncaringsociety.com/jordans-principle
You’re Invited: Manicures & Coffee 4 A Cause!
Manicures & Coffee 4 A Cause – A Morning of Self-Care and Social Impact in Toronto On Saturday, July 5th, 2025, join us at Creeds Coffee Bar for a unique community fundraiser: Manicures & Coffee 4 A Cause. This uplifting morning blends self-care, music, and mindful shopping — all in support of a powerful cause. 📍 Location: Creeds Coffee Bar, 450 Dupont Street, Toronto🕙 Time: 10:00 AM – 12:00 PM Presented by Creeds Coffee Bar, Geo Home, and Menicure Men’s Grooming, the event features: 💅☕ Whether you’re stopping by for a mid-morning pick-me-up or looking to connect with others who care about making a difference, this event is your invitation to relax, give back, and feel good doing it. Why This Event Matters Proceeds from the event will directly support The Gatehouse and its 7th Annual Healing the Voice Within Gala, a signature event dedicated to raising awareness and funds for adult survivors of childhood sexual abuse (CSA). About The Gatehouse: Transforming Trauma into Healing The Gatehouse is a Toronto-based charitable organization and registered nonprofit committed to providing a safe, inclusive space for adult survivors of childhood sexual abuse. Located in a historic house near the shores of Lake Ontario, The Gatehouse offers peer support, expressive arts therapy, and community education programming that empowers survivors to reclaim their voices and rebuild their lives. Since its founding, The Gatehouse has served over 20,000 people through a trauma-informed, peer-led approach. Their programs are non-clinical, survivor-directed, and deeply relational, creating meaningful pathways to healing that honour lived experience. The organization is nationally recognized for its innovation in survivor-led peer support, and its model has been replicated in other parts of Canada and internationally. Programs include: Learn more at thegatehouse.org Join Us & Be Part of the Healing Manicures & Coffee 4 A Cause is more than just a Saturday morning hangout — it’s an opportunity to contribute to a community of healing, advocacy, and support. When you sip a coffee, get a manicure, or pick up something special from the Geo Home pop-up, you’re helping survivors access safe spaces, compassionate peer connections, and meaningful healing experiences. Your presence helps amplify the voices of survivors, reduce stigma, and raise vital funds for The Gatehouse’s mission. Let’s Make Healing Visible Come as you are. Bring a friend. Invite others. Let’s come together to create impact — one manicure, one coffee, and one conversation at a time. 🖤 Together, we can make healing visible. Check out Creeds Coffee https://creeds.com/?srsltid=AfmBOopT5us_y_ULgLZs6numgPY-N8TkYeZSyNUXIb62IbtulgYdYuul Event Contact Lorne M. Simon @ SimonMCPR [email protected]
Congratulations to the inspiring Executive Director of The Gatehouse – Maria Barcelos
We are thrilled to share that Maria Barcelos, Executive Director of The Gatehouse, has been named a 2025 inductee into the Portuguese Canadian Walk of Fame Award. This well-deserved honour recognizes Maria’s extraordinary dedication to supporting survivors of childhood sexual abuse and her unwavering commitment to mental health advocacy. Through her leadership at The Gatehouse, Maria has helped transform countless lives and has become a beacon of healing, hope, and resilience in our community and beyond. Maria will be honoured alongside other outstanding leaders at the induction ceremony on Saturday, May 31st, 2025, at Camões Square, 722 College Street, Toronto, beginning at 4:00 PM. The event is open to the public — we hope you’ll join in celebrating this remarkable achievement. Congratulations, Maria — your vision, compassion, and advocacy continue to inspire us all. Learn more about this award at https://portuguesecanadianwalkoffame.com/ Read the announcement in Bom Dia Europa With gratitude and pride,The Gatehouse Team
Transforming Trauma into Triumph Conference
15th Annual Transforming Trauma Into Triumph Conference Date: Wednesday, May 14, 2025 Time: 9:30 AM to 4:00 PM Location: Humber College Lake Shore Campus The one-day conference hosted speakers with lived experience and professionals in various fields, including psychotherapy, social work, film, poetry, education, law enforcement, and journalism. Conference participants range in backgrounds, from survivors of childhood sexual abuse to post-secondary students, social service professionals, police officers, and community members joining to learn how they can better interact with and support those traumatized by childhood sexual abuse. Read the event report -> 2025 Conference Summary Report Transforming Trauma Conference The Objectives of the Event: Increased awareness of the impact of childhood sexual abuse, the resiliency of survivors, Increased knowledge of available services in the communities that support CSA survivors. Knowledge sharing and dissemination of wide-ranging viewpoints from victimization to criminal justice to healing and recovery from trauma. Collaboration between psychotherapists, mental health practitioners, victims of human trafficking, and those who have experienced Childhood Sexual Abuse sharing their healing journeys. Why this event? 1 in 3 girls and 1 in 5 boys will be sexually assaulted at some time in their lives. The Gatehouse is a leader in the field of addressing childhood sexual abuse trauma. Survivors of sexual abuse are in desperate need of our support and services, and we rely on the generosity of individuals and businesses to fund and expand our programs. Survivors learn to regain their voice in peer support settings, which facilitate positive coping techniques to address the anxiety, nightmares, and depression resulting from childhood sexual abuse. This conference would not be possible without the collective effort of many. To our wonderful guest speakers and the dedicated Gatehouse staff, thank you for your passion and commitment. To our placement students, thank you for your hard work in helping set up and support today’s event—your contributions do not go unnoticed. A heartfelt thank you goes out to Erin Alexandra and Jasmine Lem for your wonderful efforts in helping with this event. Your vision, attention to detail, and commitment to excellence have helped bring this meaningful gathering to life. Thank you to Paula Cordeiro, Karen MacKeigan, Stewart Thompson, and our summer students who helped make this event a wonderful success including: Omid Ghafari, Hannah Rossi, Chi Yan Kwong, Avnie Agnihotri, Martha Sandoval, Nathalie Cousineau, Douglas Andrade, Riya Macwan, Stella Sarfo, Sreelakshmi Nadarajan, Sakshi Krishna, and Anna Antonova. Thank you to Humber College and your wonderful staff, Sonia Rodrigues, who helped coordinate the booking of space, and Katie Evans, Manager, Campus Dining & Retail Services and all catering staff. Questions? Contact: Erin Alexandra, [email protected], Communications Assistant, The Gatehouse