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Man Enough to Heal by Ruth Swan

As a community member who is learning about the healing journey for those who have suffered childhood sexual abuse, I was initially reluctant to attend such an event and perhaps fearful of the unknown. Would I feel safe and could I manage listening to the journey of these three men.

From the beginning and throughout the event I felt safe and secure. The event began with a grounding activity presented by the Executive Director of the Gatehouse – Maria Barcelos. Professional staff were present.  I relaxed.

The panel discussion was facilitated by Stuart and Mike. I leaned in to each speaker with curiosity, empathy and admiration. I have never before witnessed men describe personal feelings in their life journey in such a transparent and honest forum. Their articulation was powerful and empowering.  

I have attended several Gatehouse events over the past 18 months. This event helped me as a learner understand the profound impact of childhood sexual abuse, societal implications and the ground-breaking work of the Gatehouse in helping victims of childhood sexual abuse redeem life. 

With sincere appreciation and deep gratitude to the three brave men for sharing their unique journey and caring enough about themselves and community to share their story.   

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