Progress is a Circle By: Elizabeth Jeroy – Community & Justice Services Practicum Student Progress is a circle. I recently heard this quote on a podcast and it really resonated with me. There will be ups and downs but you have to keep pushing. The person was relating this to their feelings and confidence surrounding their body image but it occurred to me this could work for any area someone is trying to make progress in. For example, overcoming shame or guilt. This is an ongoing process. It takes time to even be ready to start the journey of working to overcome and once you start it unfortunately isn’t always smooth sailing. People often compare it to a rollercoaster but if, like me, you are afraid of rollercoasters, this makes the journey sound scary. A circle sounds much more practical and effective. There will be days when you are climbing up one side of the circle, feeling yourself advancing in your healing. But there will also be days when you slide down the other side and hit a low. This doesn’t mean your process isn’t working. It means you’re human and you experience a variety of emotions. For me, I think about my journey to overcome guilt after I lost my best friend to suicide. They say hindsight is 20/20. There were days I felt shame, like what warning signs did I miss? And then there were other days where I was able to recognize this was no one’s fault. Even now, 3 years later, I still experience both these emotions, but I do recognize the progress I have made in overcoming the guilt. Whether you call it a circle or a rollercoaster or any other analogy that suits you, remember there will be highs and there will be lows. This is normal. Don’t be defeated. Reach out for support when you need it. There’s no right or wrong timeframe for your journey. Progress is a circle.
Sacred Path The Importance of Connecting with Nature
Sacred Path and the Importance of Connecting with Nature Written by Jasleen Chadha, Placement Student, Social Service Worker Nature has been known to correlate with our emotions by helping with improving our well-being. The more we are exposed to it the better it improves our mood; however, some might find it hard to find that connection with nature as they might not have the right understanding of how nature and their well-being correspond to each other. Connecting with nature makes us feel closer to the natural world (Richardson, 2018). It can become harder to connect with nature especially now because the world has changed so drastically. There have been many new improvements that people do not have the opportunity to go out to enjoy nature. Often times life situations can come in the way, or even a big change in an individual’s life can affect the ability to enjoy nature (Richardson, 2018). The type of environment that you are in can impact the emotions that you are feeling, nature plays a huge part in the type of emotions you experience. Studies have shown that nature has also helped with anger reduction. Just being in the presence of nature it helps significantly reduce anger, fear, and stress (Spar, 2022). Urban environments are known to have a more soothing environment as individuals are given a better opportunity to be able to experience nature, whereas people who live in the city are not always able to go out to enjoy some time to take some fresh air (Marques, 2020). It has also been proven to help make a stronger bond with other individuals because people are able to have face-to-face conversations and have a better understanding of emotions whereas, through the screen, people are not able to have those meaningful conversations because they were not able to see what kind of emotions the individual other is feeling. Connecting with nature has also been shown to improve our health by constantly being surrounded by a positive environment can lead to a decrease in the development of heart disease, diabetes, high blood pressure, and inflammatory disease, and it can also help improve your immune system (Marques, 2020). Some things that you can connect with nature is by taking some time to look at your surroundings, for example, you can stop to admire the trees or the flowers or just people walking by or doing an outdoor activity that you like. You can also take some time to go out for a short walk, meditate near the beach, or exercise, gardening. The possibility for outdoor activities is endless however it is up to you to know what type of nature activities best works for you and what does not. From then you can make a routine to better help improve your quality of life (Spar, 2022). References Marques, D. (2020, October 19). Connecting with nature: How it benefits our well-being, health and relationships. happiness.com. Retrieved from https://www.happiness.com/magazine/health-body/nature-connection/ Richardson, M. (2018, September 19). Why does a connection with nature improve well-being? Inside Ecology. Retrieved from https://insideecology.com/2018/09/19/why-does-a-connection-with-the-rest-of-nature-improve-well-being/ Spar, M. (2022, April 6). Nature immersion: Understanding the benefits of connecting with nature. Dr. Myles Spar. Retrieved from https://drspar.com/nature-immersion-understanding-the-benefits-of-connecting-with-nature/
Resilience And The Sacred Path
Resilience & The Sacred Path In our program, we talk about The Sacred Path in the healing journey. The Sacred Path is an integrated approach to healing that focuses on the interconnectedness of the mind, body, and spirituality. For survivors of childhood sexual abuse, the trauma can have long-lasting effects on their physical, emotional, and spiritual well-being. The Sacred Path provides a way to process these effects by incorporating practices that nurture all aspects of the self. One of the key elements of the Sacred Path is the recognition that healing is a journey, not a destination. At The Gatehouse, you will often hear facilitators and staff reinforce the notion that healing is not linear, and it isn’t! It is a process that requires patience, self-compassion, and a commitment to growth and change. This shift in perspective can be particularly important for survivors of childhood sexual abuse, who may have experienced a sense of powerlessness and hopelessness as children. The Sacred Path also emphasizes the importance of mindfulness and self-awareness in the healing process. By becoming more attuned to our thoughts, emotions, and physical sensations, we can better understand how the trauma of childhood sexual abuse has affected us and begin to develop strategies for coping and healing. Another important aspect of the Sacred Path is a connection to community and support. Survivors of childhood sexual abuse may feel isolated and alone in their experiences, and connecting with others who have gone through similar trauma can be a powerful source of healing and validation. This is the work of The Gatehouse, to connect survivors with other survivors and find validation, safety, and support in the peer support group journey. Survivors of childhood sexual abuse can start on their Sacred Path by taking small steps towards healing and self-care. Here are some ideas to get started on your own path: Seek professional help: Survivors of childhood sexual abuse may benefit from the support and guidance of a mental health professional who specializes in trauma and healing. A therapist or counselor can help survivors develop coping strategies, process their emotions, and develop a plan for healing. Practice self-care: Self-care can be an important part of the healing journey. Survivors can begin by identifying activities that help them feel grounded and centered, such as mindfulness practices, yoga, or spending time in nature. Nurturing the body, mind, and spirit can help survivors build resilience and begin to heal. Connect with others: As mentioned earlier, community connection can be a powerful source of healing for survivors of childhood sexual abuse. Survivors can seek out support groups, online forums, or other resources where they can connect with others who have gone through similar experiences. Cultivate self-awareness: Developing self-awareness can be an important part of healing. Survivors can begin by paying attention to their thoughts, emotions, and physical sensations, and learning to identify triggers or patterns that may be impacting their well-being. This can help survivors develop coping strategies and create a plan for healing. Set boundaries: Boundaries can be an important part of the healing process. Survivors can begin by identifying situations or people that may be triggering or harmful, and developing strategies for setting and maintaining healthy boundaries. Find meaning: Survivors can find meaning in their experiences by connecting with a higher purpose or something greater than themselves. This can involve spiritual practices, creative expression, or other forms of self-discovery. Everyone’s healing journey is different. Be kind to yourself.
Poetry And The Sacred Path
Poetry & The Sacred path April is Poetry Month! Poetry can be an important tool on the sacred path of healing from childhood sexual abuse. You don’t have to have a degree in English Literature to write a poem. Many survivors at The Gatehouse, have expressed that they are not poets or have a fear of writing. Start with one word to describe you or your day. That one powerful word can then turn into two or three and so on. Don’t judge the word or word(s), write. Poetry can be helpful for survivors for many reasons, including the following: Expression of emotions: Poetry can be a powerful way to express complex emotions that may be difficult to articulate in words. For survivors of childhood sexual abuse, who may have struggled to express their emotions or may have been silenced, poetry can provide a safe and creative outlet for self-expression. Release: Writing poetry can be a liberating experience, allowing survivors to release repressed emotions and trauma. This can help to reduce feelings of anxiety, depression, and other mental health issues. Self-reflection: Poetry can help survivors to reflect on their experiences and gain insight into their thoughts and feelings. This can be an important part of the healing process, as survivors work to understand and make sense of their experiences. Connection: Sharing poetry with others can be a way to connect with others who have gone through similar experiences. This can help to reduce feelings of isolation and shame and foster a sense of community and support. Empowerment: Writing poetry can be an empowering experience, allowing survivors to reclaim their voices and their stories. By sharing their poetry, survivors can challenge the stigma surrounding childhood sexual abuse and raise awareness about the issue. Here are some prompts to get you started with your first poem: Describe a place where you feel safe and peaceful. Write a poem about a person or thing that has helped you on your healing journey. Write a poem about something you have learned about yourself on your healing journey. Remember that these prompts are simply starting points and that there are no right or wrong answers in poetry. The important thing is to allow yourself to express your thoughts and feelings through your writing in a way that feels safe and authentic to you. Please consider submitting your poem to www.globalpoetrymovement.com today and help other survivors find their voice through poetry too.
The Sacred Path and Asking for Help and Overcoming Shame
The Sacred Path – Asking for Help and Overcoming Shame Asking for help is an important part of the Sacred Path. Many survivors may feel ashamed or embarrassed to ask for help, or they may feel that they should be able to handle their healing journey on their own. However, asking for help can be a powerful act of courage and vulnerability, and can be an essential step toward healing. Overcoming shame associated with asking for help can be a difficult but important part of the healing journey for survivors of childhood sexual abuse. Survivors of childhood sexual abuse may feel ashamed of asking for help for several reasons including internalized shame where survivors may feel that the abuse was their fault or that they somehow deserved it. This can lead to feelings of shame and self-blame that make it difficult to ask for help. Survivors may be afraid of being judged by others including being seen as weak or damaged if they ask for help. Additionally, survivors may have difficulty trusting others after experiencing betrayal and trauma. This can make it difficult to open up and ask for help. Here are some reasons why asking for help is part of the Sacred Path: Healing is a journey: Healing from childhood sexual abuse is a process. It takes time, self-compassion, and patience. Asking for help can provide survivors with the support and resources they need to continue on their journey, even when it feels challenging or overwhelming. Connection: Connection with others is an essential part of the healing journey. Asking for help can help survivors build relationships with others who can offer support, empathy, and understanding. Vulnerability is strength: Asking for help requires vulnerability and courage, and it can be a powerful act of self-care. It takes strength to admit that you need assistance, and it can be a powerful way to take control of your healing journey. It can help break down shame and stigma: Asking for help can help survivors break down feelings of shame and self-blame that can be associated with childhood sexual abuse. By reaching out for assistance, survivors can begin to reframe their experiences and find new ways of relating to themselves and others. It can provide new perspectives: Seeking help from a mental health professional, support group, or another resource can provide survivors with new perspectives and insights that can be helpful in the healing journey. It can also help survivors develop new skills and coping strategies that can be useful in other areas of their lives. Overcoming shame is a powerful step in being able to ask for help. Asking for help can be an act of courage and strength, not weakness. It takes courage to be vulnerable and reach out for assistance when you need it. Here are some strategies to stop shame in its tracks: Challenge negative self-talk: Survivors may have internalized messages of shame and self-blame associated with their experiences of childhood sexual abuse. It can be helpful to challenge these negative thoughts and replace them with more positive and affirming messages. Seek support: Connecting with others who have gone through similar experiences can be a powerful way to overcome the shame associated with asking for help. Survivors can seek out support groups, online forums, or other resources where they can connect with others who can offer empathy and understanding. Reframe asking for help as a positive step: Instead of viewing asking for help as a negative or shameful act, survivors can reframe it as a positive step towards healing and growth. Practice self-compassion: Practicing self-compassion can be an important part of overcoming shame. This involves treating yourself with kindness, understanding, and empathy, rather than self-criticism and judgment. Work with a mental health professional: A therapist or counselor can provide a safe and non-judgmental space for survivors to explore their feelings of shame and develop strategies for overcoming them. It is important to remember that healing from childhood sexual abuse is a unique and individual process, and what works for one survivor may not work for another. You are not alone. Healing is possible. With time, survivors can begin to break down the barriers that shame creates and move towards a place of healing and growth.
The Sacred Path & Staying Present – Survivors and Support Persons
The Sacred Path & Staying Present – Survivors and Support Persons Staying present is an important aspect of dealing with situations that activate emotional responses for survivors of childhood sexual abuse. It means being fully aware and engaged in the current moment, without being overwhelmed by memories or emotions from the past. One way to stay present is to practice mindfulness, which involves paying attention to your thoughts, feelings, and bodily sensations without judgment. This can be done through meditation, deep breathing exercises, or simply focusing on the present moment and your surroundings. Another technique is to ground yourself in the present by using your senses. Focus on what you can see, hear, smell, taste, and touch in the present moment. This can help bring you back to reality and reduce the intensity of any triggers you may be experiencing. It’s also important to have a plan in place for when activating events occur. This may involve identifying safe spaces or people to turn to for support, developing coping strategies such as journaling or creative outlets, and practicing self-care regularly. Remember that healing is a journey and triggers may still occur, but by staying present and having a plan in place, survivors can learn to manage and overcome them. Partners and support persons of survivors can help them stay present by encouraging them to focus on their breath or the sensation of their feet on the ground. They can also remind them to use grounding techniques such as noticing their surroundings or holding onto an object. Support persons can help create a safe and calm environment by reducing external stimuli, such as noise or bright lights. They can also offer physical support, such as holding their hand or placing a comforting hand on their back if that feels ok for the survivor. It’s important for support persons to approach this with sensitivity and respect for the survivor’s boundaries. Encouraging survivors to engage in self-care practices, such as exercise, meditation, or therapy, can also help them stay present and manage activating events. Ultimately, support persons and survivors collaborate to develop effective strategies for managing triggers and staying present. Respecting survivor boundaries is crucial for creating a safe and supportive environment for survivors of childhood sexual abuse. It is important for support persons to listen carefully to survivors and respect their wishes. Survivors have the right to set boundaries and express what they are comfortable with and what they are not. It is important for support persons to educate themselves about childhood sexual abuse, trauma, and recovery. This will help them better understand the survivor’s experiences and be more supportive. Support persons can stay present by practicing active listening and being fully engaged in the conversation. This means putting aside any distractions, such as phones or other devices. It also involves being attuned to the survivor’s nonverbal cues and expressions, such as body language or tone of voice, to better understand their emotions and perspective. Support persons can also stay present by being patient and allowing the survivor to take the lead in the conversation or decision-making process. Additionally, taking deep breaths, focusing on one’s own emotions, and using mindfulness techniques can help support persons to remain centered and grounded in the present moment during difficult conversations or situations. It is important for support persons to prioritize their own self-care as well, to prevent burnout or vicarious trauma.
Healing Through Curiosity
Healing Through Curiosity By Donneka Getten-Kerr, Placement Student, The Gatehouse, Social Service Worker According to the Canadian Psychological Association, (n.d.), approximately 76% of Canadians report experiencing a traumatic event during their lifetime. So, it’s safe to say many people experience trauma at some point in life, at different degrees and extent of course. However, one thing for certain, it makes an impact on your life. It changes you. It may even stay with you for a while. How and how much you carry varies per individual and situation. A tip? Be curious. Always be curious. Take the time to figure out your emotions, what they are what they mean and what you can do with them. Ask yourself questions like: What can this teach me? How can I learn from this? What can I learn about myself during this time? How can I use this to make myself a better person? How do I move on from this? It does not have to be right away or next week or month. It should be when you are ready. When you are good enough to start fighting, when you have been down long enough and you want to do better and be better. It may be as simple as getting out of bed. Hey, that’s a win if you ask me. Sometimes it’s just the simple things in life. Let’s look at this from a trauma informed approach, according to Shebib (2020): Build awareness: Recognize and acknowledge the trauma. Increase your understanding of the trauma and how it affects you. It allows for you recognize your triggers. It may also help you to realize and accept you are not at fault; this is something (something really bad and unfair) that happened TO you. You did not ask for this, you did not want this. And you most certainly did not deserve this. Managing emotional impulses: Experience your emotions. Allow yourself to come to terms with how you are feeling. This way you can differentiate and manage your reactions to triggers. How is this affecting me? Is it affecting others around me? My day-to-day life? How do I feel about the situation? I notice I get angry when see or hear certain things. When I listen to certain genre of music, I feel calm and safe. These will help you to manage your emotional impulses and understand how to deal with them when they arise. Then you can use those emotions and experiences to fuel your drive and motivation to do better, be better and to cope. Take it one step at a time (que Jordin Sparks ‘One Step at a Time’) and don’t forget to be patient with yourself. Give yourself time and permission to slow down, to fall or pause (as long as you get back up and keep going). Another important thing – Don’t forget to celebrate the wins, even the little ones. You are powerful, you are resilient and you are a survivor. You’ve got this! Hey, look at you now? Yesterday you couldn’t get out of bed and today you got up, took a shower and went back to bed… Win? Of course! Progress? You bet it is! And that calls for celebration, reward yourself. Next up, connections: You are resourceful. You are thinking of ways to get better, you are finding ways to motivate yourself and keep going. Tap into your resources. This may include a friend or a loved one, a support group, therapist or counsellor, a crisis line, inspirational quotes or affirmations, self care or even a talk with yourself. This may help you to understand the complex and sometimes confusing emotions you may experience. (Napier-Hemy, 2008). Lastly, be proud of yourself. You survived. You are trying. You have a lot going on and you are doing the best you can. That’s worth something, maybe even everything and it’s definitely worth celebrating. Try to find positive and uplifting ways to help you grow and glow. As the saying goes “it’s mind over matter” (unknown) References Canadian Psychological Association. (2020, December 2). Traumatic Stress Section: Facts about Traumatic Stress and PTSD. https://cpa.ca/sections/traumaticstress/simplefacts/ Napier-Hemy, J. (2012, July 26). Sexual Abuse Counselling: A Guide for Parents and Children. Government of Canada. Retrieved January 19, 2023, from https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/health-promotion/stop-family-violence/prevention-resource-centre/children/sexual-abuse-counselling-guide.html Shebib, B. (2020). Choices: Interviewing and Counselling Skills for Canadians (7th edition). Toronto, Canada: Prentice Hall.
How to use your creativity to help support you on your healing journey
How to use your creativity to help support you on your healing journey By: Selina Mattison, Placement Student at The Gatehouse, Social Service Worker Diploma Art is often used as an outlet for expressing difficult emotions. The arts are quite diverse, and have many different forms such as painting, architecture, sculpture, literature, music, performing and cinema. These outlets both help the artist and the viewer. However, you don’t have to be an artist to have creativity. There is an undeniable connection to trauma and creativity. Artists such as Vincent van Gogh, John Lennon and Maya Angelou (to name a few) were all similar in one way: they all had traumatic experiences. One of the reasons why trauma and creativity are connected are due to ‘shattered preconceptions’. ‘Shattered preconceptions’ refers to our imagination and the bounds it can reach. Our imagination requires the perception of possibility. When we are creative, it breaks through the limiting barriers of preconception we’re used to. The second reason is the isolation effect. Isolation, while not necessarily a positive thing, often is the birthplace of the most creative minds. When trauma makes you feel like isolating, often people look to creating to help spend their time. Whether it be painting or simply cooking. Thirdly, understanding and healing is a way of expressing more difficult emotions. There are some moments and experiences that words can’t describe, but rather, can only be expressed in color or in creativity. Researchers suggest that creatives use their negative experiences into creative ways as a mean to cope. Trauma induces creativity, and creativity induces post-traumatic growth. So where can we start? Not everyone is artistically inclined, but we can all be creatives. One way to be creative which anyone can do is collaging. Cut up some magazines, newspapers, etc. and glue them to a surface to create a piece of art. I personally find collaging to be very calming, and one of my favorite ways to create art, especially when I’m not in the mood to draw or paint. Also consuming art can be very soothing. Just listening to music or an audiobook can help inspire your creativity and support you on your healing journey. Finding a creative outlet, no matter what medium, is proven to be helpful and is worth trying out to see if it works for you. References https://amberlylago.com/the-link-between-creativity-trauma/#:~:text=Creativity%20helps%20the%20mind%20understand,creativity%20induces%20post%2Dtraumatic%20growth.
Grounding, Dissociation, and Remaining Present
Grounding, Dissociation, and Remaining Present By Jamie Ayotte, The Gatehouse Placement Student – Social Service Worker Program Survivors of childhood sexual abuse experience many unfortunate side effects as a result of their trauma. No one story is identical, but a lot of the similar issues experienced by different survivors are common. One of these that I have been thinking a lot about recently is called dissociation, as it has crept its way back into my life in the past month (for context, I am also a survivor). Dissociation is defined as “a disruption in the usually integral functions of consciousness, memory, identity, and perception of the environment” the definition goes on “Dissociative symptoms exist along a continuum, ranging from common experiences such as daydreaming and lapses in attention, through deja vu phenomenon, to a pathological failure to integrate thoughts, feeling, and actions.”. My own experience with dissociation has varied over the years, from the common daydreaming to completely losing track of where I am, what I’m doing and even have gone as far as completely blacking out in times of major stress. Luckily over the years, I’ve been able to manage the effects using various tools I’ve learned, but upon re-entering the online learning world this month, I’ve found myself faced with the challenges of dissociation while I’m speaking in front of my peers and classmates once again. Through years of therapy and techniques, I learned from the volunteers at The Gatehouse, I now have an arsenal of grounding tools that I can reach for (mentally and physically) when I start to feel myself drifting away. For anyone who isn’t familiar, grounding is basically a self-soothing skill that can be used to keep a person in or bring them back to the present when they are experiencing feelings of overwhelm, intense anxiety, dissociation or any other uncomfortable effects of being triggered. It helps you reorient the here and now. For me, grabbing a paperback book and feeling the pages between my fingers can help, or paying particular attention to objects or colors in a room that reminds me of the earth (earth tones, textures, etc…), but there are many different types of grounding techniques that can help different people. Here is a list of some grounding techniques I find helpful: Touching/holding an object that brings you comfort and/or makes you feel safe. As I mentioned above, holding onto a book and feeling the pages is an example. For me, I’m reminded that the pages are made of paper, which is made from trees. In some strange way this makes me feel connected to the earth, and can bring me back to the present. Focus on items or colors around you that are earth tones or textures (browns, greens, coarse). Again, I find these types of things remind me that I am connected to the earth, and not wherever it is that my brain seems to want to take me. If these colors do nothing for you, think about which ones do make you feel good and surround yourself with those. Going barefoot/feeling the grass under your feet. The act of literally feeling the earth underneath you can be incredibly grounding and soothing. Nature in general can have similar effects whether it be flowers, or touching the bark of a tree. These techniques that work for me are all sensory-based, and here are some more: Running cool or warm water over your hands (not too hot!) Spritzing your face, neck, and arms with a fine water mist Placing a cool washcloth on your face, or holding onto something cool like a can of pop Listening to soothing or familiar music, dancing to it if you can Noticing the weight of your body in your chair or on the floor, feeling the weight of your clothes on your skin. There are other types of techniques as well, such as: Mental Distraction Techniques: Pick a letter and think of emotionally positive or neutral words that begin with that letter Pick a color and look around for objects of that color, notice the differences in their exact shades Describe an everyday event/process in great detail, listing each step in order as thoroughly as possible Watch a children’s movie or television show, or something cute/funny on YouTube Think of the words to your favorite song or poem There are many different types of techniques that you can try using if you are experiencing something that you think grounding could help you with! For me, sensory works best but I know folks who use multiple types. Check out the link below if you’re interested in a lengthier list of different techniques and their types! https://did-research.org/treatment/grounding References: Grounding techniques. DID. (n.d.). Retrieved September 27, 2022, from https://did-research.org/treatment/grounding Relationship between dissociation, childhood sexual abuse, childhood … (n.d.). Retrieved September 27, 2022, from https://ajp.psychiatryonline.org/doi/pdf/10.1176/ajp.155.6.806
The Significance of Community and Belonging
The Significance of Community and Belonging Written by: Jasleen Chadha, The Gatehouse Placement student, Social Service Worker Diploma Program Community and belonging play a significant role in our lives. A community can come together in many ways and that can include having shared experiences (Foregeard, 2022). This is exactly what happens at The Gatehouse when survivors sit with one another and experience “me too” moments in a group. For many, it is the first time they feel seen, heard, and validated in their lives. Peer support is a powerful healing community. It is important for an individual to be able to share their emotions with others alongside being valued and supported by their peers. This basic human need allows them to feel connected with others which also allows them to build new relationships and associate with new people every day. Connection and belonging can be rooted back to before being born, an infant will need care from their parents or caregiver, this allows both the baby and guardian to connect and belong. Throughout the early stages of life, the individual will be connecting with different people, this will allow them to associate with different groups allowing them to find where they belong. These connections could be permanent, or they may come and go but it allows the individual to learn and grow. (Allen, 2019). For survivors of childhood sexual abuse, trust is violated and it can make it extremely difficult to learn to trust others, and sometimes oneself. Many survivors long for belonging and community. Not having a connection or only being limited connection and trauma can bring out negative outcomes which can affect someone’s social skills, emotional regulation, coping skills, and mental health issues. These connections give an individual the opportunity to follow the social norms and it helps guide behaviour. The early stages and years of a person are crucial for developing skills that can help deal with tragic experiences and losses. Schools and education permit a proactive approach, allowing children to adapt positively as an adult (Allen, 2019). Being a part of a community gives us the opportunity to share new information with peers around us who would be interested in that topic. Finding a community that accommodates certain interests. Some other ways that a community can be beneficial to someone is it allows for the opportunity to be inspired, to feel supported, and again build meaningful relationships and have a sense of belonging. It helps stabilize your mental well-being by being able to stay connected, decreasing the feeling of isolation (Foregeard, 2022). References Allen, K.-A. (2019, June 20). The importance of belonging across life. Psychology Today. Retrieved from https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/sense-belonging/201906/the-importance-belonging-across-life Forgeard, A. V. (2022, March 25). Why is community so important. brilliantio. Retrieved from https://brilliantio.com/why-is-community-so-important/